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10 Day Boyfriend Challenge

Day Ten : Write a letter to your boyfriend . 

Dear Ryan Nguyen ,

What can I say ? We`ve been through a lot together , more than anyone would think . How do I start this .. Alright , so I still remember the first day we met at winter camp as if it was yesterday . One day , we`re going to go back to that place w. our kids & tell them that this was where we met and we`re going to tell them how . I remember walking into that gym at the campsite late , & I saw you and thought you looked like Kevin . I don`t think you do anymore though .. But anyways , lol . We didn`t talk the first day we met , we actually had a proper convo the day after . It was when I went to you and said “HEY YOU , come here . You look like my friend Kevin .” And then we started to talk and get to know each other and what not . I`m honestly really happy I started the conversation , otherwise I`m pretty sure we wouldn`t have talked or wouldn`t be where we are today . I told you this before & I`m going to tell you again . From the start of when I met you , I always thought you were cute & deep in my heart , I always had a thing for you . But because you were younger , and at that time I was the time to care about what others thought about me , so I pushed my feelings for you aside . Then I started to catch feelings for someone else & pushed aside what I had for you . Eventually I had a boyfriend & you were seeing some next girl . Although this was happening , we remained best friends . You were always there to entertain/talk to me (well , I had to start the conversation first lol) . After both our relationships ended , we still were best friends . But my feelings for you came back , and I soon found out that you liked me as well . What was so weird was that when we were best friends , we would be like “you`re going to be my future husband ! And I`m going to be your future wife !” And look at us now lol . It`s funny how we sorta didn`t see that we liked each other , well I didn`t atleast . But yeah , on July 27th , 2010 that was when it started to happen between us . We got to see each other a lot more than I actually thought . We`ve been through ups and downs in our relationships , but the fact that we`re still together , and still love each other shows how much we do . We`ve been together for almost 13 months , and we`re still going strong . It`s actually really crazy how much our lives are alike , and through our differences , that doesn`t stop us from being together . 

I promised you this before many times , and I`m going to promise you again so that you remember . Ryan The Duong Nguyen , I will always love you . I will always be there for you , through ups and downs in both your life & our relationship . Although you can be a bum to me sometimes , and I can be sensitive sometimes & not want to talk to you , that doesn`t change how much I love you . You will always be my loserface , & I promise you that one day , we`re going to be able to see each other everyday . One day , you`re going to wake up and see me beside you . One day , we`re going to be able to tell everyone , tell the next generation that long distant relationships in high school DO last as long as you love someone a lot . I honestly believe that God blessed you in my life for a reason , and I say this a lot , but I am honestly so thankful for you & having you in my life is a blessing . As cheesy or lame as it may sound , but I believe that you`re the one for me & that you`re the one God has planned for me to be w. Because of Christ , we met at Winter Camp . And I believe that that was because He wants us to be together . So I promise you , that one day , we will be forever together . And you know me , I`m not a promise breaker . So to end off this long letter , I just want to say to you one more time ; 

I love you Ryan The Duong Nguyen , & I will forever and always love you ♥ 

Falling In Love Challenge

Day Ten : Print screen a conversation with your bf/gf .

The conversation that started it all . 072710 ♥

10 Day Boyfriend Challenge

Day Nine : Give your definition of love .

“Love is patient , love is kind . It does not envy , it does not boast , it is not proud . It is not rude , it is not selfseeking , it is not easily angered , it keeps no record of wrongs . Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth . It always protects , always trust , always hopes , always perserves . Love never fails .” - 1 Corintians 13:4

Falling In Love Challenge

Day Nine : Describe love .

It`s very hard for me to describe love or any word , but I`ll try my best . There`s honestly one verse that I can think of that can describe love . 

“Love is patient , love is kind . It does not envy , it does not boast , it is not proud . It is not rude , it is not selfseeking , it is not easily angered , it keeps no record of wrongs . Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth . It always protects , always trust , always hopes , always perserves . Love never fails .” - 1 Corintians 13:4

A song would be , “Love - Jaeson Ma ft Bruno Mars .”

To me , love is when you can forgive someone over and over again after many mistakes . In the same way how God loves us . Regardless of how many times we have sinned against Him , His love remains . He will ALWAYS love us . To me , love can overcome anything/any obstacles . This can be distance , parents , etc. If you truly love someone , no matter what comes in the way of your relationship , you will ALWAYS love them . In the same way , although sin is an obstacle in our relationship w. God , God still loves us . He loves us enough to send His one and only son to DIE on the cross for our sins . To go from God to man , and endure what we go through . That`s love , true love honestly .

So yeah , a little bit of what love is to me .

Falling In Love Challenge

Day Eight : Explain what your future would be like .

We plan to live in a house that`s in between our current home cities . Ryan lives in Hamilton & I live in Toronto . So in between that would be Oakville . That`s what we`re thinking of . Ryan says we`re going to be ballers so we`re going to have a pool & cars for both of us . We plan on having 2 kids , one boy & one girl . We want the boy first , so he can protect his little sister (y) People say what we want to happen won`t happen , but we`ll see lol . We were already thinking of names to call them haha . We plan on getting married when everything is settled , like we both know what we want to do . The reason is because a future career that I want to be may cause me to go overseas most of the time , so we`re just trying to figure things out . It`s going to be hard for both of us , since we both go to a different church in different cities . We still want to go to the church we were grown up in , so we`re going to have to work something out . Maybe my church one week , his church the other , etc . But whatever happens in the future , we`re still & will forever be together ♥

10 Day Boyfriend Challenge

Day Eight : What do you guys do often ?

We often argue a lot lol . We like to compete , we`re both very competitive . Like last night when we were on the phone , we were arguing over who liked each other first . Then we had like an hour argument over who was a loser , and who`s amazing & what not . Then there was a time when we had an argument over who was boss lol . Like we have a fun relationship , most of our fights/arguments are for fun . At the start of our relationship , it was hard for us to talk to each other because we were so shy towards each other . The only way for us to talk was like over text/comp , & like in person , the only way we could talk was if we were picking/teasing each other lol . It`s just what we do . But in the end , we still love each other a lot . Like after every argument , we`d laugh and go .. “Hey Ryan . Guess what . I love you .” Then we`d laugh , and then he`d do it back lol . I guess us picking/teasing each other makes us love each other more & what not . It`s just a way for us to have a fun relationship , and not always a serious one .

Day 10: Vent. About Anything. Let it all out.

I don`t like it when people add their comments about other people or about my life . Like no one asked for your opinion . No one asked for you to talk . Keep your comments to yourself . Did your parents not tell you , “If you don`t have nice things to say , don`t say it ” ? Like people like to add their comments about my life , or about other people that are so uneccessary . Like no one asked . If I asked , speak up . Otherwise , shut it .

And what pisses me off is people who can`t keep their promises . Like if you`re going to promise something , go through w. it . Don`t be getting people`s hopes up & what not , if you can`t do your part . Want to know why people nowadays have trust issues ? It`s because people make promises & don`t keep it .

It also pisses me off how people like to make fun of me a lot . Okay , yes I get it . I`m not the brightest chick . I am slow . But sometimes , I actually have things to say . And some things that I say , actually makes sense . Have you ever thought that sometimes I have a bad day & just mess up a lot ? Like I speak fast , so I have a tendancy to mess up what I say a lot . STOP BRINGING IT UP & MOVE ON W. YOUR LIFE . No one likes having their past mistakes brought up , so why keep bringing up my past mistakes ? Who do you think you are to bring up my past mistakes ?

Lastly , to all you people who go “I LOVE JESUS CHRIST ! Whoot ! He died for me , so I`ll live for Him . God is amazing ! Whoot ! Jesus !” then underneath that they`re all like “EFF YOU , you`re a hoe . I hope karma hits you , or I`ll hit you . You`re a slut , blah blah .” Like I admit , I used to be like that . But then I`m like to myself , what am I doing ? I call myself a Christian , a follower of Christ & look at the way I`m acting . That`s so hypocritical of me . That`s why I stop . And I see all these people who STILL do it , after being told in church multiple times , about how you should live a life showing everyone how God has changed you & in EVERYTHING you do , it should be glorifying God . So that includes all your tumblr posts , EVERYTHING . 

That`s all , good day .

Day 9: Describe your favorite outfit.

Floral tank top , under a cardigan , tucked in short shorts w. braided belt & Jordans .

Falling In Love Challenge

Day Seven : Write your bf/gf a personal poem .

LOL … I can`t write poems at all . So like .. I want to skip this challenge , but I`m pre sure my boyfriend is looking forward to it LOL . Here`s a cinquain (a) don`t laugh , :$

Ryan

Loving , Funny

Makes me smile

Always cheering me up

Mine ♥

10 Day Boyfriend Challenge

Day Seven : What was the last movie you guys saw together ?

Physically , I believe the last movie we saw together was … Hangover 2 & Kung Fu Panda 2 (On the same day) . Over the internet , it was Beastly (:

Day 8: Write your favorite book or movie and explain why.

My favourite book .. would be .. the Bible ! It`s so interesting , & it`s just one of the best ways for God to communicate to me . Also , reading the Bible just opens my eyes to new things & yeah (:

Falling In Love Challenge

Day six : Show a picture of something your bf/gf got you .

I recieved the newest iPod nano from my boyfriend . But that got lost , along w. my wristlet & perry keychain :( But this is the last thing my boyfriend got me ♥

He got me another iPod & a Winnie the Pooh bear ♥

Falling In Love Challenge

Day Five : Show a picture of you and your bf/gf .



10 Day Boyfriend Challenge

Day Six : What did you do the last time you hung out ?

Well the last time my boyfriend & I hung out was today . What we did was we recorded this film for my sister`s wedding this Saturday (: Then we just hung out w. Abby , Gabby , Natalie & Nancy . We talked & yeah (: haha 

10 Day Boyfriend Challenge

Day Five : Make a list of things you like about your boyfriend .

- good looking

- funny 

- trustworthy

- honest

- amazing

- loving

- athletic

- musically talented

- reliable

I could go on , but I`ll just write a few :$

10 Day Boyfriend Challenge

Day Ten : Write a letter to your boyfriend . 

Dear Ryan Nguyen ,

What can I say ? We`ve been through a lot together , more than anyone would think . How do I start this .. Alright , so I still remember the first day we met at winter camp as if it was yesterday . One day , we`re going to go back to that place w. our kids & tell them that this was where we met and we`re going to tell them how . I remember walking into that gym at the campsite late , & I saw you and thought you looked like Kevin . I don`t think you do anymore though .. But anyways , lol . We didn`t talk the first day we met , we actually had a proper convo the day after . It was when I went to you and said “HEY YOU , come here . You look like my friend Kevin .” And then we started to talk and get to know each other and what not . I`m honestly really happy I started the conversation , otherwise I`m pretty sure we wouldn`t have talked or wouldn`t be where we are today . I told you this before & I`m going to tell you again . From the start of when I met you , I always thought you were cute & deep in my heart , I always had a thing for you . But because you were younger , and at that time I was the time to care about what others thought about me , so I pushed my feelings for you aside . Then I started to catch feelings for someone else & pushed aside what I had for you . Eventually I had a boyfriend & you were seeing some next girl . Although this was happening , we remained best friends . You were always there to entertain/talk to me (well , I had to start the conversation first lol) . After both our relationships ended , we still were best friends . But my feelings for you came back , and I soon found out that you liked me as well . What was so weird was that when we were best friends , we would be like “you`re going to be my future husband ! And I`m going to be your future wife !” And look at us now lol . It`s funny how we sorta didn`t see that we liked each other , well I didn`t atleast . But yeah , on July 27th , 2010 that was when it started to happen between us . We got to see each other a lot more than I actually thought . We`ve been through ups and downs in our relationships , but the fact that we`re still together , and still love each other shows how much we do . We`ve been together for almost 13 months , and we`re still going strong . It`s actually really crazy how much our lives are alike , and through our differences , that doesn`t stop us from being together . 

I promised you this before many times , and I`m going to promise you again so that you remember . Ryan The Duong Nguyen , I will always love you . I will always be there for you , through ups and downs in both your life & our relationship . Although you can be a bum to me sometimes , and I can be sensitive sometimes & not want to talk to you , that doesn`t change how much I love you . You will always be my loserface , & I promise you that one day , we`re going to be able to see each other everyday . One day , you`re going to wake up and see me beside you . One day , we`re going to be able to tell everyone , tell the next generation that long distant relationships in high school DO last as long as you love someone a lot . I honestly believe that God blessed you in my life for a reason , and I say this a lot , but I am honestly so thankful for you & having you in my life is a blessing . As cheesy or lame as it may sound , but I believe that you`re the one for me & that you`re the one God has planned for me to be w. Because of Christ , we met at Winter Camp . And I believe that that was because He wants us to be together . So I promise you , that one day , we will be forever together . And you know me , I`m not a promise breaker . So to end off this long letter , I just want to say to you one more time ; 

I love you Ryan The Duong Nguyen , & I will forever and always love you ♥ 

Falling In Love Challenge

Day Ten : Print screen a conversation with your bf/gf .

The conversation that started it all . 072710 ♥

10 Day Boyfriend Challenge

Day Nine : Give your definition of love .

“Love is patient , love is kind . It does not envy , it does not boast , it is not proud . It is not rude , it is not selfseeking , it is not easily angered , it keeps no record of wrongs . Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth . It always protects , always trust , always hopes , always perserves . Love never fails .” - 1 Corintians 13:4

Falling In Love Challenge

Day Nine : Describe love .

It`s very hard for me to describe love or any word , but I`ll try my best . There`s honestly one verse that I can think of that can describe love . 

“Love is patient , love is kind . It does not envy , it does not boast , it is not proud . It is not rude , it is not selfseeking , it is not easily angered , it keeps no record of wrongs . Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth . It always protects , always trust , always hopes , always perserves . Love never fails .” - 1 Corintians 13:4

A song would be , “Love - Jaeson Ma ft Bruno Mars .”

To me , love is when you can forgive someone over and over again after many mistakes . In the same way how God loves us . Regardless of how many times we have sinned against Him , His love remains . He will ALWAYS love us . To me , love can overcome anything/any obstacles . This can be distance , parents , etc. If you truly love someone , no matter what comes in the way of your relationship , you will ALWAYS love them . In the same way , although sin is an obstacle in our relationship w. God , God still loves us . He loves us enough to send His one and only son to DIE on the cross for our sins . To go from God to man , and endure what we go through . That`s love , true love honestly .

So yeah , a little bit of what love is to me .

Falling In Love Challenge

Day Eight : Explain what your future would be like .

We plan to live in a house that`s in between our current home cities . Ryan lives in Hamilton & I live in Toronto . So in between that would be Oakville . That`s what we`re thinking of . Ryan says we`re going to be ballers so we`re going to have a pool & cars for both of us . We plan on having 2 kids , one boy & one girl . We want the boy first , so he can protect his little sister (y) People say what we want to happen won`t happen , but we`ll see lol . We were already thinking of names to call them haha . We plan on getting married when everything is settled , like we both know what we want to do . The reason is because a future career that I want to be may cause me to go overseas most of the time , so we`re just trying to figure things out . It`s going to be hard for both of us , since we both go to a different church in different cities . We still want to go to the church we were grown up in , so we`re going to have to work something out . Maybe my church one week , his church the other , etc . But whatever happens in the future , we`re still & will forever be together ♥

10 Day Boyfriend Challenge

Day Eight : What do you guys do often ?

We often argue a lot lol . We like to compete , we`re both very competitive . Like last night when we were on the phone , we were arguing over who liked each other first . Then we had like an hour argument over who was a loser , and who`s amazing & what not . Then there was a time when we had an argument over who was boss lol . Like we have a fun relationship , most of our fights/arguments are for fun . At the start of our relationship , it was hard for us to talk to each other because we were so shy towards each other . The only way for us to talk was like over text/comp , & like in person , the only way we could talk was if we were picking/teasing each other lol . It`s just what we do . But in the end , we still love each other a lot . Like after every argument , we`d laugh and go .. “Hey Ryan . Guess what . I love you .” Then we`d laugh , and then he`d do it back lol . I guess us picking/teasing each other makes us love each other more & what not . It`s just a way for us to have a fun relationship , and not always a serious one .

Day 10: Vent. About Anything. Let it all out.

I don`t like it when people add their comments about other people or about my life . Like no one asked for your opinion . No one asked for you to talk . Keep your comments to yourself . Did your parents not tell you , “If you don`t have nice things to say , don`t say it ” ? Like people like to add their comments about my life , or about other people that are so uneccessary . Like no one asked . If I asked , speak up . Otherwise , shut it .

And what pisses me off is people who can`t keep their promises . Like if you`re going to promise something , go through w. it . Don`t be getting people`s hopes up & what not , if you can`t do your part . Want to know why people nowadays have trust issues ? It`s because people make promises & don`t keep it .

It also pisses me off how people like to make fun of me a lot . Okay , yes I get it . I`m not the brightest chick . I am slow . But sometimes , I actually have things to say . And some things that I say , actually makes sense . Have you ever thought that sometimes I have a bad day & just mess up a lot ? Like I speak fast , so I have a tendancy to mess up what I say a lot . STOP BRINGING IT UP & MOVE ON W. YOUR LIFE . No one likes having their past mistakes brought up , so why keep bringing up my past mistakes ? Who do you think you are to bring up my past mistakes ?

Lastly , to all you people who go “I LOVE JESUS CHRIST ! Whoot ! He died for me , so I`ll live for Him . God is amazing ! Whoot ! Jesus !” then underneath that they`re all like “EFF YOU , you`re a hoe . I hope karma hits you , or I`ll hit you . You`re a slut , blah blah .” Like I admit , I used to be like that . But then I`m like to myself , what am I doing ? I call myself a Christian , a follower of Christ & look at the way I`m acting . That`s so hypocritical of me . That`s why I stop . And I see all these people who STILL do it , after being told in church multiple times , about how you should live a life showing everyone how God has changed you & in EVERYTHING you do , it should be glorifying God . So that includes all your tumblr posts , EVERYTHING . 

That`s all , good day .

Day 9: Describe your favorite outfit.

Floral tank top , under a cardigan , tucked in short shorts w. braided belt & Jordans .

Falling In Love Challenge

Day Seven : Write your bf/gf a personal poem .

LOL … I can`t write poems at all . So like .. I want to skip this challenge , but I`m pre sure my boyfriend is looking forward to it LOL . Here`s a cinquain (a) don`t laugh , :$

Ryan

Loving , Funny

Makes me smile

Always cheering me up

Mine ♥

10 Day Boyfriend Challenge

Day Seven : What was the last movie you guys saw together ?

Physically , I believe the last movie we saw together was … Hangover 2 & Kung Fu Panda 2 (On the same day) . Over the internet , it was Beastly (:

Day 8: Write your favorite book or movie and explain why.

My favourite book .. would be .. the Bible ! It`s so interesting , & it`s just one of the best ways for God to communicate to me . Also , reading the Bible just opens my eyes to new things & yeah (:

Falling In Love Challenge

Day six : Show a picture of something your bf/gf got you .

I recieved the newest iPod nano from my boyfriend . But that got lost , along w. my wristlet & perry keychain :( But this is the last thing my boyfriend got me ♥

He got me another iPod & a Winnie the Pooh bear ♥

Falling In Love Challenge

Day Five : Show a picture of you and your bf/gf .



10 Day Boyfriend Challenge

Day Six : What did you do the last time you hung out ?

Well the last time my boyfriend & I hung out was today . What we did was we recorded this film for my sister`s wedding this Saturday (: Then we just hung out w. Abby , Gabby , Natalie & Nancy . We talked & yeah (: haha 

10 Day Boyfriend Challenge

Day Five : Make a list of things you like about your boyfriend .

- good looking

- funny 

- trustworthy

- honest

- amazing

- loving

- athletic

- musically talented

- reliable

I could go on , but I`ll just write a few :$

10 Day Boyfriend Challenge
Falling In Love Challenge
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10 Day Boyfriend Challenge
Day 10: Vent. About Anything. Let it all out.
Day 9: Describe your favorite outfit.
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Day 8: Write your favorite book or movie and explain why.
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